How to Be a Good Father
By Ptr. Robert Kent Jesalva
Ephesian 5:21-33
Introduction:
As a father, God sees you big in your position. The Husband is the initiator of everything as christ initiates of everything. The possession of the father at home is critical. In a secular world, even people around the world need a father. Our society is spiraling downward. You can choose whatever you choose but when God sees you that you are doing wrong, then you're doing wrong and the other way around. We celebrate fatherhood because it is a crucial position. After all, the Devil hated the Family. The Devil hates the church and he is doing to destroy the church.
There is one ingredient of being a father:
1. You should be a good husband.
In secukar worls, men are wild. The children must be involved in ministry. The word of God help us gives value in our life. Sometimes, we cannot appreciate the moment, but the fellowship and communication, we may miss them. "The great miracle is not loved at first love, but love after a long look."
Let us have our church as the place of love.
How to Be a Good Husband
1. Respect Faith
We will not have a good relationship with the wife without having faith in Christ
Ephesian 5:21
Deuteronomy 31:12
Many children today do not have to fear God because they do not hate God. They will come to respect God. The church is the best place to look for a life partner. Someone needs to have a fear of God. Build each other faith. It is the responsibility of a husband to initiate. The husband must be the leader of the spiritual. Wife, encourage your husband because he is the leader. As long as we are living, it is never too late to apply and do good. Let us build each other faith. Christ is the center of the relationship/
Ecc 4:12, If Christ is the 3rd party in a relationship, the home is not broken. If we putting God first in our lives
2. Remember your roles
Ephesians 5:22,25
a. Our role is first to lead
The wife submits because the husband must lead. The wife is the cheerleader of her husband. It is important to have a proper direction from the people surround us, Not necessarily as the brightest, strongest, or most experienced, but God assigned you to that position, lead. The husband is designated as the leader of the home. Men are more logical than emotional. As a leader, it must be track-minded or one word. Wives are sensitive. They can see what men cannot see.
1Peter 3:1, 7
A leader must be the pattern in the Bible. If your husband is an unbeliever, you can win your husband to Christ through your actions.
Husband, pray to the LORD that you are always with your wife.
Marriage is not about sex. It is different than in a marriage, there is spirituality.
3. Raise contentment
Develop contentment in marriage. Phil 4:11-13
We know how to enjoy blessings and no blessings. Your worth is not determined in the materials. It is more important to God to trust HIM. We can do more things if we are humble and content.
4. Remove bitterness
One of the big problems at home is bitterness.
Ephesians 4:26. It must be before 6 pm, your problems must be solved. Do not switch off the light before you resolve the conflict. Work out with your differences,
5. Remain in communication
1Peter 3:8
The relationship is built-in communication. It is all in communication. If we want to look for a lasting relationship, do not look for external, but in a deeper. Try to understand each other. The goal of marriage is one that the two be one.
Eph 5:31. Learn to talk or open with your partner. Open up with yourself with your husband because that is intimacy in marriage. If the couple has intimacy and string then, the children will also be strong.
Lasting love
As the couple grows older, the level of maturity change and become stronger. Husband, have a date with your wife.
6. Refresh Romance
Let the courtship continue.
7. Remain in Prayer
Being a good father starts being a good husband. A young couple who is contemplating marriage, learn your partner.
Nendut ang Christian life
Nendut angmarried life, why? because God designs it.
